How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 23.06.2025 06:24
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Has anyone ever had sex with their cousin? How did it start, and would you do it again?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What I need from you?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Does not procrastinate.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
That's it for today.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
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Living to your full potential is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
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Making more friends is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Ask yourself:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.